Self-protection? Selfishness?

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larorra
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Thu May 09, 2013 9:56 am  

flow wrote:I'm new to this group, but have been practising mindfulness and meditation for a few years now.

I felt a little shallow, avoiding war, crime, poverty, etc., and choosing one about music. Selfish? Self-preservation? It's where I am right now. Will I change again?


Hi There,

I've never tried posting a quote so don't know if it will turn out or not, but here goes , I was interested by what you wrote because I find since practicing mindfulness that I feel differently myself and my likes have changed alot, like the tv programmes I watch, am watching much less tv, am developing new interests, dabbling at painting and surprising for me am developing a liking for classical music! Never thought that possibel, but through mindfulness when I actually "listen" properly to the music it is beautiful. I have always loved nature but find the senses enhanced through mindfulness and am in awe at the beauty of trees, leaves, flowers, clouds the sky, weather, the list is endless.
I dont think your being selfish, you are mindful of your choices, don't be harsh on yourself, just be "you".
Jackie

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Thu May 09, 2013 10:05 am  

Beautifully put, Jackie.
I've pretty much given up TV now and I retired from Facebook some time ago. I now drink a small fraction of the booze I used to quaff in pre-mindful days. I read a lot more. And my taste in music has expanded no end - I now listen to a lot more classical and I'm getting into ambient music (Brian Eno especially) in a big way. I still play a lot of ska as that's always guaranteed to cheer my spaniel up. He's a major Prince Buster fan.
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larorra
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Fri May 10, 2013 12:14 pm  

thanks Jon,
yes, its funny how our likes change through mindfulness. I am at present on week 6 of the 8 week course by Danny Penman & Mark williams and am handling it quite well. I also meditate on my own in the mornings and am able to stretch it out a little bit longer than I used to. Life is good. Have a great weekend!

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Fri May 10, 2013 1:25 pm  

Life IS good.
Natalie Merchant wrote a terrific song with that very title.
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rara
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Mon May 13, 2013 9:54 am  

JonW wrote:I've pretty much given up TV now and I retired from Facebook some time ago. I now drink a small fraction of the booze I used to quaff in pre-mindful days. I read a lot more. And my taste in music has expanded no end - I now listen to a lot more classical and I'm getting into ambient music (Brian Eno especially) in a big way. I still play a lot of ska as that's always guaranteed to cheer my spaniel up. He's a major Prince Buster fan.


Wow, so I'm not mental then :lol: Only difference is that I don't listen to Brian Eno
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Mon May 13, 2013 10:17 am  

Music For Airports is a very beautiful album.
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Gareth
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Mon May 13, 2013 7:31 pm  

Eno is the master; it's among my favourite meditation music. You must listen to 14:31 by Global Communication. Best meditation tune ever.

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Mon May 13, 2013 8:21 pm  

Funnily enough I purchased 14.31 just last week and I'm loving it.
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Gareth
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Mon May 13, 2013 9:39 pm  

The ticking clock is like a metronome. It keeps you hooked right into the track. I have a whole host of ambient recommendations if you are ever interested.

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Tue May 14, 2013 7:09 am  

I'd be very interested. Thanks Gareth.
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