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by SheilaB
Thu Mar 17, 2016 6:18 pm
Forum: Mindfulness Resources
Topic: Workshop Near Brighton With Sheila Bayliss
Replies: 0
Views: 1332

Workshop Near Brighton With Sheila Bayliss

Just a note to those of you near Brighton. If you've read my blogs here on Everyday Mindfulness, you might be interested in this one day mindfulness workshop I'm co-leading in May.

The day is on the theme 'Happiness Here and Now'. More info and how to book can be found here http://bit.ly/22dgCU0
by SheilaB
Sat Feb 06, 2016 5:47 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Obsessive Tendencies
Replies: 4
Views: 1943

Re: Obsessive Tendencies

Hi Peanut, It sounds like your own instinct is that therapeutic support may be helpful - I'd encourage you to follow that up. A skilled therapist can guide you in the appropriate use of mindfulness and meditations. If you're in the UK, many GPs are now able to refer to MBCT courses at local hospital...
by SheilaB
Thu Aug 27, 2015 7:37 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Hello
Replies: 14
Views: 6832

Re: Hello

Hi Moksha Having struggled with anxiety myself, I found that a mindfulness approach which emphasised self-compassion was particularly helpful. I've written about my own experiences in a couple of posts for this site. A book I found helpful is Jeffrey Brantley's Calming Your Anxious Mind. At the time...
by SheilaB
Tue Jul 14, 2015 10:06 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Some tips needed please
Replies: 16
Views: 9513

Re: Some tips needed please

Hi James, Having been on this journey for about 7 years and got huge benefit from my practice, would it help for me to share that for many of those years I found formal practice wasn't always top of my 'enjoyable' list?. (And yes, I know all about the wagon!) But thankfully, you don't have to enjoy ...
by SheilaB
Sun Jul 12, 2015 3:18 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Mindfulness with Anxiety Feelings
Replies: 13
Views: 4808

Re: Mindfulness with Anxiety Feelings

You mentioned gentleness - the discovery of which was certainly transformational for me around difficult feelings that I'd rather not have. I'm so much of a gentleness convert that you can find plenty I've written about it here on Everyday Mindfulness. Wishing you kindness and gentleness in your con...
by SheilaB
Sun Jul 12, 2015 3:06 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Affirmations and Striving?
Replies: 13
Views: 5880

Re: Affirmations and Striving?

I'm not sure that affirmations as such are normally included in standard mindfulness practice. From my own experience of having tried them (before I discovered mindfulness), I found that telling myself 'I am' something which I don't really feel can lead to the opposite of what mindfulness is all abo...
by SheilaB
Sun Jul 12, 2015 2:56 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Affecting the breath without intending to
Replies: 9
Views: 5135

Re: Affecting the breath without intending to

I struggled with this a lot when I first started. I had an idea that I was supposed to making my breath deeper and slower - and I'd end up getting very frustrated with what my breath was actually doing! When I began to 'allow' the breath to happen, and let it be just as it is in this moment - whethe...
by SheilaB
Tue Jul 07, 2015 6:42 pm
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: How to become less reactive using mindfulness
Replies: 13
Views: 7890

Re: How to become less reactive using mindfulness

Hi rabbitgirl, Your question prompted some great answers, thanks for posting it! I think there's also a lot of value initially in just becoming more aware of our reactive habits, without judging ourselves when we fall into them. Most of us have built up reactive strategies which have served us in so...
by SheilaB
Thu Jun 18, 2015 10:32 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Online meditation partner/buddy sought
Replies: 7
Views: 3265

Re: Online meditation partner/buddy sought

Hi there, I lead live guided meditations online so that people can practice 'together'. It's via the Mixlr site which is really easy to use. People often tweet me afterwards to share comments or reflections. The schedule can be found on my website if you like the sound of it - http://www.lollipopwel...
by SheilaB
Mon Feb 09, 2015 9:46 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: MBSR vs. MBCT
Replies: 16
Views: 9869

Re: MBSR vs. MBCT

Just realised I didn't see the whole thread so my reply was a bit behind!

It is so important to be able to discuss anything you're unsure about with your teacher. I'm sorry there seems a lack of clarity about the structure of the course you're on. Hopefully things are unfolding well...

Sheila