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by zeddartha
Wed Jan 23, 2019 4:39 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Openness to others and self preservation
Replies: 17
Views: 13410

Re: Openness to others and self preservation

'The only appropriate mindset towards someone who suffers like this is loving-kindness, to think, speak and act for their benefit.' Not necessarily. Sometimes, the most mindful thing to do is walk away and don't look back. Loving-Kindness is an invitation to explore the edge of compassion. It is no...
by zeddartha
Tue Nov 27, 2018 2:17 am
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: To Think or not To Think?
Replies: 9
Views: 4954

Re: To Think or not To Think?

There is a very good sutra that might answer your question, Majhima Nikaya 138 - Uddesa Vibhanga Sutta. A thought is just one of six classes of conscious experience, like sight, sound, odour, flavour, and tactile sensations. It's not so important whether you think or not, the appropriate way to atte...
by zeddartha
Thu Sep 20, 2018 12:13 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Openness to others and self preservation
Replies: 17
Views: 13410

Re: Openness to others and self preservation

Hi monkey, JonW: The answer can be found in the suttas. Having good companions is said to be one of the highest virtues, good companions are those who are generous, virtuous, mindful and inclined towards nibbana. So it is beneficial for one to prioritize spending time with these kinds of people, as ...