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by monkey
Sat Mar 02, 2019 6:57 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Welcoming everything / turning towards
Replies: 1
Views: 1309

Welcoming everything / turning towards

Hi everyone. I’ve come out of a really crappy time where things often felt overwhelming. I’m trying to practice turning towards all thoughts and feelings that come, both in the day and in my sitting, rather than instantly pushing things away. I just wondered how others go about this. I sometimes can...
by monkey
Mon Feb 11, 2019 9:25 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Is using mindfulness cues cheating?
Replies: 6
Views: 3058

Re: Is using mindfulness cues cheating?

Actually, I do have a cue, when I am waiting, for example for a lift, to cross the street etc., I try to use that as a cue to see what’s happening with me. Also when I hear birds singing. Years ago I had problems with my shoulders and did physio for it and the physio told me to put post its or stick...
by monkey
Mon Feb 11, 2019 8:43 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Is using mindfulness cues cheating?
Replies: 6
Views: 3058

Re: Is using mindfulness cues cheating?

Nope. :D Find what works for you and do that. When what works for you changes, do that instead. I don’t mean that to sound glib, and also I have struggled with this in the past (‘but am I REALLY meditating if I...’) but I do think that you just need to do what works for you and be ok with it. A wise...
by monkey
Mon Feb 11, 2019 8:36 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: fears and mindfulness
Replies: 4
Views: 2553

Re: fears and mindfulness

Hi yardenmodan, welcome! I agree with Jon and Peter - a week is the beginning! I’ve been sitting for years and still have a lot of things come up which feel very painful. It sounds like you might have had some traumatic experiences in the past. If so I think it would be good if you found a teacher o...
by monkey
Mon Feb 11, 2019 8:41 am
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: Depression and Anxiety
Replies: 5
Views: 5649

Re: Depression and Anxiety

Hi Jabber, nice to meet you. I also find that mindfulness helps with my depression and anxiety in a more sustainable way than other things. Glad to hear your experiences.
by monkey
Sun Feb 10, 2019 7:56 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Openness to others and self preservation
Replies: 17
Views: 13410

Re: Openness to others and self preservation

JonW wrote:Welcome back, Monkey!


Thanks!
by monkey
Sat Feb 09, 2019 9:39 pm
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: practicing mindfulness for depression
Replies: 11
Views: 9490

Re: practicing mindfulness for depression

hello. i have been struggling with my depression for 20 years. this year my mom was diagnosed with early stage alzheimer's / mild dementia. mindfulness brought back hope!!! please stop by and say hello ;) Sorry, I also meant to say that I’m sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis. That must be hard.
by monkey
Sat Feb 09, 2019 9:38 pm
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: practicing mindfulness for depression
Replies: 11
Views: 9490

Re: practicing mindfulness for depression

hello. i have been struggling with my depression for 20 years. this year my mom was diagnosed with early stage alzheimer's / mild dementia. mindfulness brought back hope!!! please stop by and say hello ;) Hi andree, nice to meet you. I’m glad you’ve found that mindfulness is helpful. I also have pe...
by monkey
Sat Feb 09, 2019 9:27 pm
Forum: Experienced practitioners
Topic: Openness to others and self preservation
Replies: 17
Views: 13410

Re: Openness to others and self preservation

JonW wrote:Yes. Absolutely.


That’s funny, I came back here today for the first time for ages and thought this thread looked interesting and realised it was mine, and also that there had been recent posts! :)
by monkey
Fri Jul 28, 2017 2:14 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: TEXTING OR NEXTING
Replies: 3
Views: 3442

Re: TEXTING OR NEXTING

Yes, absolutely. I have a regular cycle of managing to feel grounded and present and able to roll with what's happening for a few days and then getting very caught up in plans for the future, frustration and impatience, desire to change myself, feeling negative about myself for not already getting w...