Gareth wrote:I see mindlessness creeping into my oldest son
Haha - for some reason that sentence brings about imagery of Damien the Omen hunched over his tricycle in the corridors of his house. I don't mean to make light of the situation of course. It is intriguing to consider how parents nurture the 'little Buddha' side of their young children - especially when those children will be potentially responding subconsciously to wider prevailing mindless cultural habits - they are preparing for obtaining essential resources through a practical life in a global society and they'll no doubt be weighing up the various strategies available - many strategies of which being mindful of human feelings will be a limiting factor. When competing with other businesses, for example, honesty and compassion when interacting with a customer is not deemed to be a desirable character trait. That's why I like teaching instead.
I remember telling my mum that I couldn't wait until I could be old enough to get drunk without being told off by adults. She asked me why with a frown of confusion on her face. I couldn't believe getting drunk as a sole aim would ever be met with opposition - that's how most adults enjoy themselves, right?
"Compassion – particularly for yourself – is of overwhelming importance." - Mark Williams,
Mindfulness (2011), p117.
"...allow yourself to smile inwardly." - Jon Kabat-Zinn,
Full Catastrophe Living (2005), p436.
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