Thinking about animosity

[Quietman]

Was thinking about a bad situation between myself and someone else. It occurred to me that the only thing I can do is behave well and as kindly as I can according to my lights and just crack on. Then my intuition says alll should be good if the other does the same by their lights. No interference. Follows then that things still not going well ...time to talk.
Behave yourself and leave well alone. Might be what the lads from the east mean by non-attachment?
Blaming the other...looks like attachment too

[Quietman]

Btw...sorry if every woman and her madra twigged this before but what the hell!