
English is not my mother language so sometimes I sound a bit 2dimensional

I have a history of trauma and PTSD, I coped for about 6 years with medication and psychotherapy, and I'm glad that I'm stable enough now to be able to work and spend nice time with my husband and little daughter. I am the so called advanced worrier and most of the day I deal with mind chatter.

My practice consists of a prayer, then I repeat my personal mantras and do reach a feeling of peace and presence, that I really welcome every time

During the day I try to stay aware and focused on the moment, but I have very great trouble with that. My mind is like a monkey. At the end of the day I'm so tired I feel I have been wrestling the whole day and I just want to cry to relief all the tension that has built up.
I sometimes try to just contemplate my thoughts, but when I do that my thoughts disappear. When a new thought arises, I look at it and it automatically dissapears before I even finished thinking it. So I don't understand how I should contemplate my thoughts if they disappear?
I have one big wish, and that is to quiet the mind, be present and be happy. Mindfullness feels so hard for me, and that is why I think I'm doing things wrong. I don't feel any progress. Is it normal to be hard in the beginning?