I usually find that the second method is not needed majority of the time, as I can accept my emotions with the first one after a few tries. Is there some other benefit to the second one other than accepting what's happening? Do I have to make an effort to use the second one? Is the first method even a good idea?
I do repeatedly identify what's happening, my body language or what I'm feeling. Maybe I'm already doing it, or does it need to go further than that?
Thank you in advance, even to the people who tried to help but couldn't. Have a great day.
