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by self-conscious
Thu Jan 29, 2015 7:41 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: How to be mindful while interacting with people
Replies: 8
Views: 2725

Re: How to be mindful while interacting with people

I read about a meditation technique, in The Confidence Gap by Russ Harris, where you imagine your thoughts drifting away down a stream; so that you don't dwell on them. I tried to do that but was not successful. So instead, when I meditate, I count my breaths up to 10; then start over. When my mind ...
by self-conscious
Thu Jan 29, 2015 7:31 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: How to be mindful while interacting with people
Replies: 8
Views: 2725

Re: How to be mindful while interacting with people

I wouldn't say that my ideas about mindfulness are exactly based on what I've read. Regarding the books Iooked at: the techniques described in them seem similar to other things I've read about meditation and mindfulness. Jon Kabat-Zinn co-wrote the introduction for Chade-Meng Tan's Search Inside You...
by self-conscious
Wed Jan 28, 2015 8:48 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: How to be mindful while interacting with people
Replies: 8
Views: 2725

Re: How to be mindful while interacting with people

I have read parts of several books on mindfulness, such as "Search Inside Yourself" by Chade-Meng Tan, and "The Confidence Gap" by Russ Harris. I may consider looking at the books you suggested. I find just sitting and not being able to daydream, kind of boring; but I haven't spe...
by self-conscious
Wed Jan 28, 2015 8:41 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: How to be mindful while interacting with people
Replies: 8
Views: 2725

Re: How to be mindful while interacting with people

So with mindfulness you can have illogical negative thoughts, but you can distance yourself from the thoughts and let them go? Therefore your are not effected or distracted by the thoughts? I know many of my negative thoughts are not logical or exaggerated, but they still effect my behavior anyway. ...
by self-conscious
Wed Jan 28, 2015 12:40 am
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: How to be mindful while interacting with people
Replies: 8
Views: 2725

How to be mindful while interacting with people

I have read a bit about mindfulness and meditation. I have meditated a little. So far, it just seems like a boring chore. I don’t feel any benefit when I do it. I don’t understand how meditation is supposed to help me be in the present in a situation where I’m interacting with people and I feel self...