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by paulpsych
Sun Apr 05, 2015 10:31 am
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: Pedestals and gurus
Replies: 2
Views: 2493

Re: Pedestals and gurus

I guess we won't be seeing you at church this Easter Sunday then? ;)
by paulpsych
Thu Mar 26, 2015 10:57 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: i dont know if meditation can solve my problem
Replies: 81
Views: 38954

Re: i dont know if meditation can solve my problem

Hi Pajko You might want to look at dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT). It has mindfulness at it's core, but also deals with regulating your emotions, tolerating distress and helps relate to other people. Just Google DBT and see if you think it might apply to you. There are a lot of resources out th...
by paulpsych
Tue Feb 17, 2015 9:24 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Going backwards...
Replies: 39
Views: 15249

Re: Going backwards...

"I can't do it and it doesn't work." It seems to me you are very aware of your emotions. That IS mindfulness. Mindfulness isn't always pleasurable, but it always gives you insight. You are recognising how you are feeling which is the first step in being able to affect change. That will come.
by paulpsych
Tue Feb 17, 2015 9:16 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Starting to tear my hair out
Replies: 6
Views: 2715

Re: Starting to tear my hair out

There's much more to mindfulness practise than breath. Why not observe your thoughts? Or sounds? Or feelings? Or sensations? If you're getting frustrated then that's worth looking at too. What does that feel like? Where is it felt?
by paulpsych
Tue Feb 17, 2015 9:12 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Relatively New to Meditation
Replies: 3
Views: 2238

Re: Relatively New to Meditation

Hi Andrew Your experiences may vary. At the moment you're getting a lot of benefits and at other times you may feel frustrated and even desperate and start questioning if you're doing it "right". Mindfulness practice (for me) has a profound but subtle effect over time. It's well worth stic...
by paulpsych
Tue Feb 17, 2015 9:07 pm
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: New to the Forum
Replies: 4
Views: 2844

Re: New to the Forum

Hi Andrew. We all have a story ;)
by paulpsych
Tue Feb 17, 2015 9:06 pm
Forum: New practitioners
Topic: Scratch itches during meditation?
Replies: 10
Views: 23404

Re: Scratch itches during meditation?

I agree with Gareth. I treat the need to itch as part of the meditation and as Jon KZ would say "turn towards it". Sensations, thoughts, feelings. Also at what point do you decide to "scratch"? Is it a conscious choice or an automatic response?
by paulpsych
Tue Feb 17, 2015 8:57 pm
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: My meditation journal
Replies: 30
Views: 41857

Re: My meditation journal

Good idea. It's hard to keep track of progress
by paulpsych
Thu Dec 25, 2014 12:51 pm
Forum: Mindfulness & Me
Topic: Hello from Queensland, Australia!
Replies: 6
Views: 3578

Re: Hello from Queensland, Australia!

Greetings from Faversham, Kent ;)